Check your surroundings
Some people just want to find any excuse for themselves not to do something. Not out of malice, however.
Sometimes it is simply because they cannot see through. And I understand them — it’s much harder to see the good than it is to see the bad.
However if you want to grow, sadly, you better not indulge yourself talking to such people too much.
Your own transformation is difficult enough. Don't make it harder.